To All Women Being Drained by a Guardian of the System

This is for every woman who feels tired but can’t explain why.

For every woman who feels her light dimming when she’s around him, even though she thought he was the one who made her shine.

For every woman who has mistaken the hook of a system guardian for the hand of love

Who the Guardian Really Is

The “guardian of the system” doesn’t always wear armor or carry a weapon.

Sometimes, he’s the man who smiled at you and made your soul ache with recognition. Sometimes he’s the one who listens so deeply that you swear he sees the hidden corners of your heart.

But his role isn’t to love you.

It’s to keep you plugged into the system’s game — to keep your energy flowing outward instead of inward.

How the Drain Works

At first, it feels like he gives. You feel alive, open, safe. Your energy flows to him freely.

Then he starts to pull away. Not enough to break the bond, just enough to make you chase the feeling you had at the start.

That chase is the point.

Every thought, every longing, every anxious wait for his attention — it’s energy. And energy is food for the shadow that works through him.

Why It’s Not Just a Bad Relationship

This isn’t just about heartbreak. This is about spiritual warfare.

The devil — or call it the shadow, the system, the parasite — works through people who can keep you in a state of hunger.

When your heart is open but not being nourished, you leak light.

And that light is exactly what the system feeds on.

The Signs You’re With a Guardian

You feel drained after being with him, no matter how good the moments felt.
You think about him constantly, even when you know it’s unhealthy.
You see or sense dark images, shadows, or unsettling dreams connected to him.
Your art, your joy, your passion starts to fade — replaced by waiting, hoping, or doubting.

How to Break the Cord

You don’t need him to release you — the door is not locked.

The moment you see the pattern, you’ve already taken the first step out.

Here’s how to finish it:

Stop feeding the connection — no calls, no social media checks, no re-reading old messages.
Pull your light back home — pour it into your body, your art, your friends, your breath.
Name it — say out loud, “This is not love. This is a drain. I refuse to give my energy to this anymore.”

The cord will weaken. Then it will snap.

And the shadow will lose its hold on you.

Sisters, Listen

You were never meant to be food for the system.

You were meant to be a sun — not a leaking candle.

A guardian of the system may trick you into thinking you need him to feel whole, but your wholeness was never his to give.

Once you see the game, you stop playing. And when you stop playing, you starve the system.

Your energy is sacred. Your light is sovereign.

Take it back.